loneliness

we are always lonely arent we? we always hear that he or she is desperate and lonely...how much does tis loneliness control us? izzit like the song, i m lonely? do we be in a relationship just because we are lonely n seeking a cure? we can't deny that we are emotional being and will somehow feel lonely or the need to be love by someone. i admit that i do feel lonely n need of being love. But i channel by loneliness to make frens n serve God. God equal to love. He is the only person that satisfied me for the love i m always searching for. Because of Him,i found a faithful and true lover. He is the lover of my soul, accept all my flaws and even sacrcifice His only son Jesus to take our sin away. Through God, i learn to luv myself and others. He make me grateful n blessed to be who i am. Merciful and patient are what He potray to me! He will never leave me or closed the door no matter what i had done and nothing i can do to make Him love me more. have u experience before where you keep on tearing your heart bits by bits to others and end up losing ur heart or faith? But loving God is different, He won't abandon you or tell you that He want a break up or make your heart break. In fact,i rejoice everyday as a result of loving God. I remember the moral studies that i taken in college, loneliness is different with solitude. solitude is refreshing while loneliness is sadness and withdrawell from people. Solitide is feeling that you can control while loneliness is feelings that cant be control. Let talk about walking in a relationship... first,it is not easy. A lot of commitment is needed. emotional maturity is essential as you have to be strong in your emotion and you must love yourself before you love your partner. Love need a lot of patient,mutual respect, mutual understanding and commitment. it is not just a cure for loneliness nor trying him or her to see whether he or she is the right one. it is also not a dating game, or being in a relationship for the sake of dating or just for sexual pleasure. Love for me personally is to combine two soul into one, to complete and balance out eack other, and to understand each other. Love is pure and holy.