thoughts

one day, my mum forget to pick up my bro from tuition center (coz she were too tired after work n just drop another bro off) anyway...he suggested dat he use cab to go bck home.. mum hestitated n all.. but after some talk, she agreed. i noe its a small matter but its like a mother bird slowly letting her child fly, even if she is worried n all.. for parent, we r alwiz a baby. well, i noe its nt a big deal for him to take cab n all..but for him , it is, a 15 year old boy who normally protected by mum n all.. my mum protected us, too much sometime, my dad is the one who understand the need for us to survive on our own.. u noe la, mum alwiz the one protect the children n all.. well, by taking cab, its means he get to learn to wait for a cab, tell the hse add n point direction n b aware of the cab driver.. its might b a small thing, but its a step to prepare him to fly as a individual, as a man.. by using cab, he will have the sense of accomplishment (i noe it might nt b accomplishment for u) n being independant.. so, yeah, dats y u r encourage to let ur children do things on their own, with approciate guide of course... it does matters, wen we noe we r trusted to do things..