loneliness

we are always lonely arent we? we always hear that he or she is desperate and lonely...how much does tis loneliness control us? izzit like the song, i m lonely? do we be in a relationship just because we are lonely n seeking a cure? we can't deny that we are emotional being and will somehow feel lonely or the need to be love by someone. i admit that i do feel lonely n need of being love. But i channel by loneliness to make frens n serve God. God equal to love. He is the only person that satisfied me for the love i m always searching for. Because of Him,i found a faithful and true lover. He is the lover of my soul, accept all my flaws and even sacrcifice His only son Jesus to take our sin away. Through God, i learn to luv myself and others. He make me grateful n blessed to be who i am. Merciful and patient are what He potray to me! He will never leave me or closed the door no matter what i had done and nothing i can do to make Him love me more. have u experience before where you keep on tearing your heart bits by bits to others and end up losing ur heart or faith? But loving God is different, He won't abandon you or tell you that He want a break up or make your heart break. In fact,i rejoice everyday as a result of loving God. I remember the moral studies that i taken in college, loneliness is different with solitude. solitude is refreshing while loneliness is sadness and withdrawell from people. Solitide is feeling that you can control while loneliness is feelings that cant be control. Let talk about walking in a relationship... first,it is not easy. A lot of commitment is needed. emotional maturity is essential as you have to be strong in your emotion and you must love yourself before you love your partner. Love need a lot of patient,mutual respect, mutual understanding and commitment. it is not just a cure for loneliness nor trying him or her to see whether he or she is the right one. it is also not a dating game, or being in a relationship for the sake of dating or just for sexual pleasure. Love for me personally is to combine two soul into one, to complete and balance out eack other, and to understand each other. Love is pure and holy.

true frens

Just Friends VS. Best Friends
A Just Friend says..hi,..hello,..bye,...and walks away...
A Best friend always stop by your side & asks how r u doing ??

A Just Friend has never seen you cry.
A Best friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.

A Just Friend thinks the friendship is over, when you have an argument.
A Best friend knows that it's not a friendship, until after you've had a fight.

A Just Friend hates it when you call, after he has gone to bed.
A Best friend asks you.... why you took so long to call.

A Just Friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A Best friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.

A Just Friend jealous about your romantic history.
A Best friend wonders of your love story.....

A Just Friend expects you to be always there for any help.
A Best friend is always there, wherever you require any help.

A Just Friend doesn't have time in his/her busy schedule,
A Best friend always have time for you in his/her busy schedules....

A Just Friend phones you whenever he/she has some work,
A Best friend calls you often just to hear your voice.....

A Just Friend doesnt have anything to talk to you on phone
,A Best friend doesnt know...what all to finish...